Yes. Mind sex.
What? You say you've never had mind sex?
Ever? As in, not even for a moment???
*Gasp*
Well relax and let me tell you what mind sex is.

Mind sex.
It is not when he speaks that
sends butterflies flittering through your belly.
It is not when he touches you
that your body is aroused.

Oh no, not at all.
It is what he says that tingles your spirit.
It is the words that breathe life into the ideas that form in his mind
that caress your body.
It is his thoughts for a future,
his future that give you goosebumps, and leave you wishing you
were a part of that future.
And the present that will eventually make the future.

It is the passion that burns in him
that catches on to you, setting your body on fire.

No, it is not when he touches you.

It is when his ideas reach out to your ideas
and in the process of discussing them,
your ideals and values are aroused
and excited almost like they've been awoken
from a deep slumber,
and the more you talk about it,
the more you want to continue to this climax
where there will be nothing,
no one else left in this world
but you, him....



... and your minds.




And then you wonder to yourself,
                                                                   who is this superior being?



And, and...can you steal borrow his mind?

Comments (28)

On May 9, 2010 at 11:18 PM , Nice Anon said...

I get what you mean. We all have at some point.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 1:13 AM , Suru said...

I like this and it's well written.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 2:42 AM , BBB said...

from ur definiton
i have def had mind sex
and it was fabulous

 
On May 10, 2010 at 2:59 AM , SHE said...

I get the idea. But, superior?

 
On May 10, 2010 at 3:57 AM , ~B~ said...

daaaamn gurl!!

 
On May 10, 2010 at 3:57 AM , Fragilelooks said...

i def ave had dat. nice1

 
On May 10, 2010 at 6:00 AM , lani said...

hhmmm....

 
On May 10, 2010 at 7:41 AM , aeedeeaee said...

Oh. So that's the name of what i had yesterday...Mind sex...Wow...

 
On May 10, 2010 at 8:37 AM , Omotee! said...

thanks for giving that thing a name.... mind sex.. hmmmm

nicely done!

 
On May 10, 2010 at 10:16 AM , F said...

Mind sex virgin right here... God forgive me but too much IGG (to quote that genius article on Bella Naija)... Fine for face, ugly for brain... I guess if talking to these guys is supposed to be mind sex... Then some of them "finish a bit too early"... :)

 
On May 10, 2010 at 1:21 PM , Audeo said...

Babes. I get you!!!! I've been there. I am there. For an intellectual snob like myself (i'm sorry but i'm not sorry. if you get me) nothing glues me to a guy faster than mind sex.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 1:51 PM , leggy said...

i loved this.nicely written.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 2:42 PM , 48 said...

It's a lovely thing when what binds you to someone is their mind. The 'sex' is even hotter when you're able to inspire each other to act on those ideas.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 3:20 PM , neefemi said...

i think i'm there....scary feeling really and it just feels so good. God help me.....

 
On May 10, 2010 at 6:37 PM , Myne Whitman said...

You know sometimes Mind sex can even be more exciting than the flesh? Yes indeed.

 
On May 10, 2010 at 8:25 PM , Miss Natural said...

another great one (there are so many)..but myne took my comments right out of my head...exactly as she said!

 
On May 11, 2010 at 12:42 AM , 品華yur1095is_newson1 said...

thank for share, it is very important . ̄︿ ̄..................................................

 
On May 11, 2010 at 10:07 AM , bob-ij said...

LOL @ "his ideas reach out to your ideas"

Sounds like a movie...

~x~

 
On May 11, 2010 at 1:11 PM , Nutty J. said...

I'm turned on now...sexually...in my mind.

Mind sex hmmmm....nicey

 
On May 12, 2010 at 10:37 AM , Ms.O said...

oh wow...hmmmm interesting!

 
On May 13, 2010 at 6:27 AM , funkola said...

OMG...then i'm too sexually active.lol!

 
On May 13, 2010 at 11:32 AM , Tisha said...

i won't call it mind sex
but i fall in-love with a guy's mind ever before i can fall for him

if not
i'll just imagine he's too dense and be pu off
blame the intellectual in me

what am i going to do to fabulo-la
how are you doing?

 
On May 21, 2010 at 8:14 AM , My world said...

this is some explanation here :-)))
I feel you,dear.

 
On May 21, 2010 at 7:14 PM , 韋于倫成 said...

一個人的快樂,不是因為他擁有的多,而是他計較的少。 ....................................................

 
On May 22, 2010 at 6:24 PM , 2cute4u said...

Keep bringing it to focus,I definitely like that!
Nice post

 
On June 2, 2010 at 3:35 AM , T.Notes said...

Ooooh this is reaching deep down n bringing out some deep sturvs!!!I like!!!!Many interpretations abound. I choose mine.Hmmm....

 
On June 2, 2010 at 11:39 AM , Naijalines said...

Yeah mind sex can be exciting as long as we both know that's what we are doing. Hehehehehe.

 
On October 13, 2010 at 10:34 PM , Marian said...

Mind Sex..intoxicating....